Category: Stories (Kah Yein’s)

  • Tabs’ cremains are back with us

    Pet Memorial sent Tabs’ cremains back to us this morning. Tabs was our quietest cat; she seldom even mewed, and definitely did not create any trouble to anyone, feline or human, and yet her absence is felt so, so significantly. I miss having Tabs sit on my lap as I write this. I miss having…

  • Life goes on

    As much as we miss Ginger and Tabs, I’m glad Minnie and Monsters have not been affective negatively by the demise of their favourite Uncle Ginger. I did bring Ginger’s remains in to let them say goodbye on the morning he passed away. They are all eating well and normally, so that’s good. The Blondies…

  • Asking the hard questions in palliative care

    I miss Ginger and Tabs so, so much. There is no more subcut to do each morning, no more medicines and supplements to feed. No more cleaning of Tabs’ special litter box. It was additional work every morning and I miss it so much. I miss them both. Yesterday, I cleaned out the containers for…

  • Retraining Gerald

    For a few weeks now, we have been trying to train Gerald to eat twice a day instead of three times. As you know, Gerald is an extremely demanding (and vocal!) cat, so it’s taking a lot of willpower and patience to do this. If husband is around, it is easier because Gerald is afraid…

  • In loving memory of Tabs

    Tabs came on her own to our old house in November 2011 one night, wearing an oversized red collar. She followed my husband home. There she is! This is the very night that Tabs first came to our house. She was super confident and marched all the way into the house. The first thing she…

  • Goodbye, dearest Tabs

    Tabs passed away very peacefully at 9.00pm tonight with husband and I both beside her. She has indeed been a PKD (polycystic kidney disease) warrior for so long, having been born with this genetic predisposition. Even after it was discovered more than two years ago, she continued living a normal and happy life, with very…

  • Ginger’s cremains are back home

    Ginger’s cremains are back home with us now. We miss Ginger very much. My husband feels an emptiness as he sits in the catio without Ginger by his side. I also feel an emptiness because I don’t get to look after him anymore. But Ginger will always live on in our hearts. We remember him…

  • Tabs to the vet’s (constipation and urinary problems)

    Tabs stopped eating nine days ago, but after two days, she started eating again. It was only small amounts, but she was eating at least a little bit, a few times a day. Initially she only wanted Cindy’s baby food paste, but she later ate some canned food as well. I offered whatever foods we…

  • In loving memory of our dearest Ginger

    It has been many, many years of the sweetest memories with Ginger. His family was a CNRM cat family, initially looked after by a feeder until we moved into this neighbourhood in early January 2012 and Ginger adopted us. This is the very first photo I have of baby Ginger, sent by the feeder. Ginger…

  • Goodbye, dearest Ginger

    Ginger passed away very peacefully at 9.36am this morning. I was with him since early morning and was beside him when he breathed his last. It was very, very peaceful with absolutely no struggle at all. He just drifted into a deep sleep. We would like to thank all friends who have given us moral…

  • Ginger’s act of kindness

    Tabs had some urinary problems yesterday evening. Ginger sensed that Tabs was unwell, so he came onto the bed to accompany Tabs, until early this morning. Even though he is also unwell, there is still room in his heart to care for his friend. Ginger, you are such a kind and thoughtful cat.

  • Tabs eats again and Ginger at his top of the world

    Tabs deteriorated very, very quickly and last night, we rushed to get her Gabapentin to help ease any discomfort she might have. I also gave her Mirtazapine last night, but it did not work at all. She refused all food and water today. She didn’t even want me to moisten her lips with a cotton…

  • Ginger is alert and so “polite”

    Ming-Yi has visited Ginger twice so far and yesterday, when she and Yui Ping arrived at our gate, Ginger was asleep, but he got up and walked all the way to the front door to greet them. And when they left, Ginger also got up and walked to the front door to see them off…

  • Tabs’ advanced PKD

    Tabs’ polycystic kidney disease has been gradually advancing and in the last two blood tests, there was a rapid rise in the creatinine level. The vet prescribed medication and we gave them a try, but none of them worked anymore. I knew it was time to stop the intervention and focus on letting her be…

  • Keeping Ginger comfortable

    Ginger stopped eating and drinking three days ago. This means there is no more thirst or hunger. He is comfortable; his breathing is stable and gentle. He is calm. He even sits in the loaf position or would curl up comfortably to sleep soundly. The loaf position indicates that he is maintaining his dignity as…